The Urge to Have Resolutions
By Alina Popescu on Apr 6, 2008 in Just me, Thoughts I Came across
We measure our lives in different ways and once a certain period has passed and a new one appears ahead, we feel the need of some resolution. To analyze the past, then make plans and set goals for the future. I have personally made resolutions at the beginning of a new year, at the beginning of a new school year, on my birthday, whenever I did something I considered wrong and I never wanted to do something similar again.
There were times when I thought, as I’ve also noticed in others, that such resolutions are a waste of time. Other times, I just figured they provide a pretty good opportunity for a quick recap, to see where I am and think of where I want to be. I know I can make strict lists and nothing might happen according to plan, because life is hectic and situations and circumstances change everyday. But I can still define a pattern to follow.
My birthday was last week. I had the time of my life although day to day problems and annoyances didn’t stop just because it was that special day of the year when I get older and not necessarily wiser 
Joanna of Confident Writing whose birthday is two days from mine also introduced me to the best birthday song ever! I got a cool camera and made myself this great present I’ll tell you about in a couple of months.
Yes, I made the much needed resolution. Not on paper, not on my computer. I just closed my eyes and thought of where I wanted to be next year. And I am pretty sure I’ll get there!
How often do you stop to analyze what’s been going on and think of what you want to do next?
Popularity: 6% [?]
Alina, I think of it like setting and re-setting my course. And I’m always doing it! I think this is one of the reasons I like blogging so much - always something to learn and reflect on from other people.
I’m glad you had a wonderful, amazing day and I look forward to seeing where your new resolution takes you.
And I’m very glad you enjoyed that song. Now I’ll always associate it with you - and smile whenever I hear it.
Joanna
Joanna Young | Apr 6, 2008 | Reply
Setting and resetting course, that’s a great way of putting it into words! The best explanation I’ve heard up to now
I always think of you when hearing that song
I still play it a couple of times a day on Youtube, although it’s not my birthday anymore 
Alina Popescu | Apr 7, 2008 | Reply
hi alina,
you’re right… there’s no time like the present to start something new and sometimes you don’t need to write or define something, just know what you want and what you need and move intuitively toward your goals… there will be obstacles but every hurdle will make you stronger and better, don’t see them as a problem but a chance to redefine your objectives and refocus…
keep well…
bart | Apr 8, 2008 | Reply
Hi Bart, thanks for your input. Indeed, now is always the best time. And when obstacles come and when you are drawn back a little, it’s better to start again than worry about not doing everything right.
Alina Popescu | Apr 9, 2008 | Reply
Happy belated birthday, Alina!!
I agree that it is important to reflect, to set resolutions (the process is beneficial, I think, regardless of whether we meet our goals exactly or not). I feel the need to reflect right now, as I am about to start a new chapter in my life very soon.
Hope you are well!
ali la loca | Apr 10, 2008 | Reply
Hi Ali, thanks for stopping by! I am sure you will do just fine, even if there are big changes heading you way!
Alina Popescu | Apr 10, 2008 | Reply